Here are the golden rules of etiquette does not speak of marriage:
Obscenity / Bad Language: Most people you love for a little warped humor (even the bride and groom), but the kind of humor do not belong in speaking of marriage - trying to keep it suitable for all ages. The same goes for the bad language, there may be a word you can use weights, but once again try to keep suitable for all ages.
Negativity: So you can not get comfortable with a particular family - the speech is not the time to point this out, although it is a joke. It is time to mention that you were just divorced / dumped - although it is to say that it's going to happen. Let negatives at home and only bring positive in his speech.
Alcohol: Yes, I know that a glass of champagne to help you with your nerves before the speech, but you should monitor your spending. With all the cooking and drinking around you may be hard to pace yourself until the moment of speech, but worth it. You do not want your speech to remember about you slurring or stumbling (or worse!)
Group: Do not make the speech complicated - keep it simple. Unless you are a talented public speaker is better to avoid lengthy stories or complex metaphors. This is not a test, you're the sort, so it will not impress someone with a great vocabulary.
Too Fast: The speech is not a race, everyone is willing to wait for the cake! If you rush through it will be difficult to understand you and some of the feelings may be lost. Be sure to stop for some laughs and heartfelt moments that can be coordinated with the public. Past Romance: Do not under any circumstances to receive either the bride or grooms former friends / girlfriends, husbands / wives, etc., even if it is to say that their taste in men / women have improved dramatically. Mention of just tarnishing his speech and probably will leave some people feel quite uncomfortable.
